As we approach
the end of a year which many of us would rather forget, I’d like to take a
brief look back at that final post, especially as my reasons haven’t changed.
In fact, with some of the anti-vaxxer nonsense being perpetrated on social media,
I’m even more convinced that my decision to ignore Facebook, was the right one.
Since its
inception and launch in 2004 as a social networking site, Facebook has become a
global phenomenon, and is now the largest social network in the world, with
more than one billion users. Founder and CEO, Mark Zuckerberg has obviously amassed
quite a fortune in the process – not that there’s anything wrong with that in
itself, it’s just the fact that what started out into a platform where people
can connect with one another, has now morphed into an out of control monster whose
influence now extends into the very heart of government.
When Mrs PBT’s
was seriously ill three years ago, and in intensive care, the site proved invaluable for posting
bulletins and sharing updates on her progress, amongst family and friends. These
Facebook updates saved me from having to make numerous phone calls or texts to
all those who were anxious about Eileen’s condition and keen to learn how she
was recovering.
So far, so
good, but it wasn’t long afterwards that I began to notice a dark side to the social
media giant that, had I bothered to look, had been lurking in the background for
some time. I’m referring here to Facebook’s all-pervasive nature, and the way
it encourages people to share or like certain items and events.
These are
harmless enough if they’re photos of puppies or kittens, even if they are more than
a little cringeworthy, but when the items being shared are stories and information
that are obviously false, then the site becomes a platform for fake news and misinformation
that is potentially dangerous, especially when targeted at gullible people or individuals
who are easily manipulated.
Similar
allegations were made against the government of Russian President, Vladimir
Putin, during the US Presidential elections from the same year. Facebook of
course, vehemently denied such allegations, although as Mandy Rice-Davies
famously said, “Well they would, wouldn’t they?
The site has also
become home to all sorts of fringe activists and out and out crackpots, ranging
from umpteen conspiracy-theory groups, to science-deniers, such as anti-vaxxers.
Sometimes they’re combined – Bill Gates will use the Corona vaccine, to inject micro-chips
into people, in order to control them. Or, at the start of the pandemic, the
virus is being spread by 5G phone masts!
But serious
though these charges are, it’s the things that are going on at a much lower on the
social media network that is of far more concern. Sharing trivia such as photos
of cuddly puppies or cute babies is relatively harmless, even if it is a detachment
from the real world, but when the intention behind sharing is to shame people,
then the whole thing takes on a far more sinister turn.
“Share this, if you care,” or worse still “Only my real/true friends will share this,” “They will know who they are.” The not so subtle message here is, if you want to remain friends with me, then share this piece of sentimental rubbish, fake news or out and out poison. This combined with the constant whining, the scaremongering and the people who are “outraged” over something totally insignificant, is enough to make one want to pass the sick bucket.
Worse still are the “keyboard warriors,”
quick to post a cutting comment or quip, without having bothered to read the
facts, safe in the knowledge that there will be no comeback on their hurtful,
insulting or even racist remarks. I appreciate that this “cyber-bullying” is
actively discouraged by Facebook’s administrators and compliance people, yet it
still goes on.
This, along with all the other
negativity Facebook attracts, is enough to do anyone’s head in. It was
certainly doing in mine; even though I regard myself as a positive,
level-headed and pretty much together sort of person. What sort of effect would
all this be having on a person with low self-esteem or suffering from mental
health issues?
So, apart from the occasional quick
glance, I’ve given Facebook a complete miss these past nine months. I feel much
better without a daily social-media fix; in fact, I would go so far as to say
that since avoiding the site, my mood has lifted considerably. I also consider
that my mental health and general well-being have improved no end, despite the
gloom surrounding Coronavirus and an impending “no-deal Brexit.”
If I have missed anyone’s birthday, anniversary or significant life-event, then please accept my sincere apologies. I still care about family and friends, but now remain in touch with those I want to, via WhatsApp.
There’s no blame
attached to the people who originally developed Facebook. I’m certain they did
so with the best of intentions. It is implausible to believe that, even in their
wildest dreams, they could have imagined the site becoming the success it has
become today. It’s naïve too to think they could have contemplated the increasingly
bad effect the site is having on the world population, and the ability of people
to be properly informed and think for themselves.